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Asked: April 23, 2021In: Motivational

i don’t know what’s happening

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I am a first year law student, currently studying in one of the top 5 National Law Universities of India. What exactly is my problem- i can only explain it after giving a brief overview of what happened with me ...Read more

I am a first year law student, currently studying in one of the top 5 National Law Universities of India. What exactly is my problem- i can only explain it after giving a brief overview of what happened with me in the past three years of my school life. I have always been one of the toppers in my school but never actually felt that i deserved any of the appreciation that i got. Also, my parents got so used to it that they stopped praising me for whatever i achieved. When i was 13years old, i was extremely bullied by my batchmates which actually had a positive impact on me. I wanted to stand out from that rudy crowd so i focused only on my academics. neither boys nor gossips or any other trash could distract me. i was extremely strong willed. when i was in 10th, my family had a legal dispute due to which all of us were extremely disturbed but i did not let anything pull me down. i focused on my academics and stood 7th in my school when the board results came. But something in me changed when i came in 11th standard. I became weak, extremely weak, both mentally and physically. I just changed completely. my self confidence was bottom low. I used to think that i looked like a monster, that i was hideous, a lowsy good for nothing. My grades touched a bottom low, i barely passed in my subjects. My parents were extremely upset due to me. Everything around me was just negative, I was negative. But then one day my guy friend came and told me that i was waisting away my time and should do something productive. For some reasons known to me, that statement literally hit me hard. I started studying again. Again i started coming first in all the sections and then decided to prepare for Law exam along with my 12th. Many people, including my teachers dissuaded me since according to them it will all amount to an extreme burden. But i studied hard for both of them and when the board results came( during the pandemic), i was declared the school topper! i had scored 98%. Obviously everyone was proud of me. but the problem started after it. I knew i had the capability to get Air 1 in the CLAT and Ailet exam but out of nowhere i got addicted to porn. I had never seen it and the very thought brought me shivers and goosebumps but nevertheless i got addicted and became extremely depressed. I stopped studying for CLAT and AILET. Luckily, my base was so strong that i still got an AIR 400 so did get into one of the best NLUs but not the best :/ I still regret it. Still, i was happy atleast since i had lost all hope from myself. But now, nothing is going right. I am again weak, mentally. I even had a surgery and am still recovering from it. I have stopped studying and bunk almost every online class. My parents are dissapointed with me but right now i feel as if i cannot do anything. I am again so low in self confidence. I am such an introvert that i cannot even talk on the phone, even if it is my friends. I have stopped talking to my friends because they have nothing good to talk about. Their mental level is extremely low. Talking about my college friends, i barely have any. I do not socialise with anyone, do not pick calls of anyone. I just don’t do anything. It honestly feels as if i am a dead meat. What i want to do whole day is watch korean dramas. I cannot believe i am saying this but i genuinely want a close friend since anyday now i can literraly burst into an explosion. what can i do to motivate my self? I cannot go anywhere due to COVID and my surgery. I can’t eat junk food due to my health. I just don’t feel like doing anything. Everyday i’m being more and more introvert. i want to increase my confidence. right now, i am again flustered. I won’t say i’m depressed, that is a big cliche term, it is just that i am not motivated. Kindly help me.

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Asked: February 8, 2021In: Mental Health

Being a very introverted person, very sensitive, can’t tolerate the rudeness of other people

Anonymous
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Being a very introverted person, very sensitive, can’t tolerate the rudeness of other people

Being an extremely independent individual, touchy, can’t endure the discourteousness of other people(it separates me) ,no friendly abilities, exceptionally modest from the school days itself, family sucks, my mother has transformed all relations with my dads family into worse, so ...Read more

Being an extremely independent individual, touchy, can’t endure the discourteousness of other people(it separates me) ,no friendly abilities, exceptionally modest from the school days itself, family sucks, my mother has transformed all relations with my dads family into worse, so no family love, monetary instability, and so forth and so on … its difficult for me to cause companion now in school since I generally to feel low confidence as individuals here are excessively outgoing and smart.I get discouraged without any problem. since I believe I’m not adequate … hence I think that its difficult to make companions effectively, converse with people and so on and so on

how should I respond

I feel intellectually focused on unsurpassed

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Asked: March 10, 2021In: Motivational

That purpose in career .. how to love it again

Anonymous
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I just have no purpose in life. Feel lost . Neither is any sense of achievement nor any dreams. Just nothing makes me happy. Nor do I have any reason you be sad . I am just gloomy. No passion for work, relationship, learning, fitness. The only ...Read more

I just have no purpose in life.

Feel lost .

Neither is any sense of achievement nor any dreams.

Just nothing makes me happy.

Nor do I have any reason you be sad .

I am just gloomy.

No passion for work, relationship, learning, fitness.

The only time pass is mobile . What I surf of it also makes no sense. I just waste my time.

I make so many plans but I end up doing nothing except being addicted to my phone.

I want to love my job. I really used to like it once. Maybe the escalations there which I could not understand, led me to question my capability and I lost my career track.

How to get passionate for my job again?

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Asked: March 3, 2021In: Life

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Just turned 26, but I feel a little lost in life. I have not achieved much yet. I have lived most of my life in this smalltown and feel like my dreams are much bigger than this little town. I’ll ...Read more

Just turned 26, but I feel a little lost in life. I have not achieved much yet. I have lived most of my life in this smalltown and feel like my dreams are much bigger than this little town. I’ll get my degree in two years but I’ve been so unmotivated lately. I think that I’m finally feeling the quarantine effect.

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Asked: March 8, 2021In: Happy

Wondering if there are others like me

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I don’t have a question here. Just wanted to share my thoughts out in the universe may be. But the universe doesn’t answer back in words. So this platform was my other option. I am in a frame of mind ...Read more

I don’t have a question here. Just wanted to share my thoughts out in the universe may be. But the universe doesn’t answer back in words. So this platform was my other option.

I am in a frame of mind today where I am questioning the existence of almost everything and everyone around me… mostly my own self. What purpose do I have because frankly I don’t think I am good at anything but expressing myself and that too anonymously. So probably I am not even good at that. I hide and am afraid to take decisions for myself. I know I have the power to change myself and my situation.. I know.. but what if I am not that brave. Maybe I don’t love myself enough.. May be I am too afraid to lose. I don’t have dreams of my own. I dont have anything which is just mine.. other than my pain.

Am I the only one!

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Asked: March 9, 2021In: Relationship

i hate my ex, pls this is urgent, i would be forever grateful if someone helped

Anonymous
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a few months ago my ex broke up with me, in the first place he asked me out normally, i said yes and we dated. i used to feel very insecure with him but i really liked him, a few ...Read more

a few months ago my ex broke up with me, in the first place he asked me out normally, i said yes and we dated. i used to feel very insecure with him but i really liked him, a few months later he broke up with me saying he cannot emotionally invest his time on me, after a few days he asked out my friend who is very close to him, they both were like sister and brother and she is 7 years younger to him, inspite of that he asked her out. she knew that i was deeply hurt when he broke up with me but she still accepted him and they both are now in a relationship, that guy later told me that he loves her even though she tied him rakhi and that everybody kows them as sister nad brother, she is 15 and he is 22. both of them have hurt me very deeply. the girls parents even know about her relationship with him and are okay with it. her father even started deciding their future with her boyfriend!!!! this is pissing me out. i cared about him so much, i gave him whatever he wanted and he cheated on me with his sister like friend!!! i am very sad. all these days i was thinking they wont last but the girls family is planning her future with him. i know this is a toxic relationship but i hope they breakup and get their karma, i have my entrance exams coming up, i have already fucked up one of it, my career is falling apart. i am totally deviated. it would be of great help if someone helped me, thank you and may god bless you. also that girl(15 year old) is very immature and innocent type. even my other friend says that he is being possessive about her and is distracting her from her studies, do you think they will last?

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Asked: January 28, 2021In: Motivational

This is a tough road. There will be a lot of risks.

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This is an extreme street. There will be a ton of dangers. Every one individuals I know are gotten comfortable a safe work. They are getting paid for what they do. Yet, not me, I’m not getting paid. I’m rather ...Read more

This is an extreme street. There will be a ton of dangers. Every one individuals I know are gotten comfortable a safe work. They are getting paid for what they do. Yet, not me, I’m not getting paid. I’m rather placing all my cash into hazard. in any case, I trust in my business. I realize it will work. I simply should be reliable and continue to buckle down. I can do this. I can.

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