a few months ago my ex broke up with me, in the first place he asked me out normally, i said yes and we dated. i used to feel very insecure with him but i really liked him, a few months later he broke up with me saying he cannot emotionally invest his time on me, after a few days he asked out my friend who is very close to him, they both were like sister and brother and she is 7 years younger to him, inspite of that he asked her out. she knew that i was deeply hurt when he broke up with me but she still accepted him and they both are now in a relationship, that guy later told me that he loves her even though she tied him rakhi and that everybody kows them as sister nad brother, she is 15 and he is 22. both of them have hurt me very deeply. the girls parents even know about her relationship with him and are okay with it. her father even started deciding their future with her boyfriend!!!! this is pissing me out. i cared about him so much, i gave him whatever he wanted and he cheated on me with his sister like friend!!! i am very sad. all these days i was thinking they wont last but the girls family is planning her future with him. i know this is a toxic relationship but i hope they breakup and get their karma, i have my entrance exams coming up, i have already fucked up one of it, my career is falling apart. i am totally deviated. it would be of great help if someone helped me, thank you and may god bless you. also that girl(15 year old) is very immature and innocent type. even my other friend says that he is being possessive about her and is distracting her from her studies, do you think they will last?
i hate my ex, pls this is urgent, i would be forever grateful if someone helped
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Hi dear,
It’s really a heartbreaking incident of your life. Sometimes we face this kind of challenges, mental trauma in our life and feels that things are out of control in our life. Well, nobody can give a perfect solution to your problem as we have limited knowledge as provided by you. We can only suggest or advise you but you only have to decide about your future and actions.
Sometimes we think that things are getting out of control in our lives and we are the biggest victims. We ask this question to ourselves-“Why this is happening to me? why me……?”
It’s for your own good that he broke up with you as you know that he is not a good person.
It’s time for you to focus on your entrance exams, forget about the past, forget that person. Assume he would have never existed in your life. It’s difficult to forget and move on but you have to do this for your bright future.
People follow success and if you would be successful, the whole world will come to talk to you.
You don’t have to worry about his current relationship if their parents don’t have any issue, then let them decide. It should not bother you. You only can convey your message to the young girl about your ex characteristics. Its up to her to take your suggestions or not. Let her parents decide about her future.
Whatever happened is an indicator of your bright future. God sent you a reminder that it’s time to move on in your life and achieve your goals. Clear entrance exams confidently, you will get other great persons in your life at right time. This is not the right time to be involved in such relationships when your career is at stake.
For changing your mood and forget about past experiences, change your routine. Devote some time in practicing meditation, affirmations in the morning. Go to the gym, take a walk in a natural place, visit an orphanage, feed people, develop your hobbies. Get involved in things which you like the most.
I will provide links to some videos, please check them and follow them, you will get results faster.
Try to put on headphones and listen to guided meditations when you are going to sleep, it will help you to achieve mental peace and forgetting painful memories.
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