Lately, I’ve been saying no to all plans my friends have made because of work. I’m a key worker there, it’s tough if I’m not there because I’ve learned everything there. I also just love my job and making money. My friends also works with me they took the day off and planned a beach trip with our friend group, which is today. If I had gone we would’ve only had a couple hours together because of the drive to and from. I tried to make it work but I said no. That’s two less people at work so I can’t be a 3rd. We would be understaffed plus other workers have strict schedules and can’t be called in today. I also just found out my other friend group is out today together. I would’ve been there but my mom declined the event because it’s like a dance practice for an upcoming event. But because of work this would be the only practice she could make so she declined because what’s the point? I don’t know how to feel, left out? But I also brought it upon myself. So now my summer is just work and drivers ed.
I feel left out…
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Shaista Ansari
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Shaista Ansari
It’s completely understandable that you feel torn between work commitments and wanting to spend time with your friends and family. It’s clear that your work is essential, and being a key worker means you play a crucial role in maintaining operations and providing necessary services. Your dedication and love for your job are commendable.
At the same time, it’s natural to feel a sense of missing out when you have to decline social events due to work commitments. However, it’s essential to recognize that you made this decision because of your responsibilities and the circumstances at work.
Here are a few suggestions to help you manage the situation:
Communication: Talk to your friends and explain your situation honestly. Let them know that you appreciate the invitation and would love to join them if the circumstances at work allow it in the future. Good friends will understand and support your commitments.
Balance: While work is crucial, it’s also essential to find a balance between work and personal life. Look for opportunities to take time off or swap shifts with colleagues to participate in social events occasionally.
Plan Ahead: Try to plan events and outings in advance, so you can request time off from work early and make arrangements for someone to cover your responsibilities during your absence.
Virtual Connection: If you can’t make it to physical gatherings, consider arranging virtual hangouts with your friends and family. It may not be the same as being there in person, but it’s a way to stay connected and involved.
Self-Care: Ensure you take some time for yourself to relax and recharge, even amidst your busy schedule. Finding moments for yourself can help reduce stress and maintain your overall well-being.
Support System: Surround yourself with understanding and supportive friends who comprehend your work commitments. They will be more accommodating and less likely to make you feel left out.
Remember, you’re not alone in facing such challenges. Many key workers have to make sacrifices to fulfill their duties, and it’s essential to find a balance that works for you. Keep your goals and priorities in mind, and don’t hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or colleagues when needed.